• Anomander@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    It’s “proper” usage is preface for a statement whose interpretation is ambiguous or easily misunderstood as disrespect, not as a “you’re not allowed to be offended” preface for statements intended to be disrespectful.

    What I was saying is that the latter use case is overwhelmingly the more common one.

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      1 year ago

      Yup, something like “with all due respect, I don’t think you’re seeing this clearly right now. You should eat a Snickers.”

      Not “with all due respect, you’re decision-making skills rival a toddler’s, but without the low stakes and amusement.”