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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • Yes, if friends. Unless they are repeating themselves, I’m going to be interested at least a little. Coworkers, no. I’ll be polite and sympathetic but if it is not related to work I am unlikely to be interested and will try to bring the conversation back to work topics or end the conversation as soon as I can without being rude. Randos, maybe but probably not. I’ve met lots of interesting people and am always kind of interested in hearing about the human experience from anyone who want to share theirs, but really I think I got too old or jaded for that. I avoid interacting with random strangers if its a choice now, and am always at least a little skeptical of whatever bullshit someone I don’t know has to say to me. I try not to be rude expressing my disinterest but I will be if it feels appropriate or necessary.













  • For sure, when they knocked on my door at 4am I was sound asleep and had no idea what was going on. I don’t think they ever identified themselves as police, they just kept pounding aggressively on the door. My first instinct was full fight mode, it was a very confusing and terrifying way to wake up. I can definitely see arming yourself in that situation until you figured out who the fuck is pounding on the door in the middle of the night. It’s the opening the door while armed part specifically that’s a bad idea, that’s inherently going to escalate any situation and you don’t know who is at your door or whether they are actually a threat so it’s not appropriate to be brandishing a gun. Either don’t open the door until you know who it is or keep the gun out of sight until you know it’s actually needed.