fair points. I kind of like them just because of the context that the kid has been complaining about being single. I feel like I did that one time before I realized that people don’t give you other people to date. or if they do, that’s actually weird. but I think being told to evolve was even gentler than the language that was used to communicate to me that I needed to grow and be a person who anyone would want to be alone with (let alone date).

got it. thank you for the in-depth explanation

if someone is harassing or mistreating you on the basis of your voting, then you can take it up with an amin.

this is a highly demanding solution for a misbehavior that takes very little energy to engage in. at least in my experience with admins, even when you have an effective one that doesn’t mean they will be effective in the coming months or years. ultimately a lot of people will end up having to explain somebody else’s bad behavior to another who just might not care.

but never mind that. what I’ve actually got to wonder is what does having votes public even accomplish positively? is the goal to help users understand each other based on actions we made that up to this point we thought were anonymous?

another comical demise for the rabid dog-class. there’s something in the air this year ❤️

what gave you that impression? he’s not pandering, he is the dumbass base