I’ve found radicale more stable in my implementation, but both are very good and are pretty similar to use.

If you already have NextCloud/OwnCloud it would be a good to use the Calendar that is already built in, but it doesn’t make sense to install those for a calendar when there are better options available.

I set up mine through docker and it works great. I’ve switched from other CalDAV / CardDAV hosts and it really is the most stable and reliable.

I use a third party VPN without any issues (USA)

Yes, it depends a lot on the jurisdiction where you live. In general where permitted, it involves a process of legally establishing your wishes, receiving qualified counseling, and then obtaining the “means” to use according to your designated plan.

One last comment on your edit: Tempo is great, and I used that as well, plus it’s open source. The symfonium dev is actually pretty cool about helping you work around Google if you want to buy it another way, but it has to be activated manually by the dev on each device. I just didn’t want the hassle.

I’d probably go with Tempo if I were still using navidrome since it’s open source.

I did this for a while, and only switched back to Jellyfin/Finamp while degoogling (needed for paid version). I thought it was definitely worth it while I was using it. I also listen to music on the TV and Jellyfin handles it better than other options I tried (including side-loading symfonium).

I currently use a separate music library manager on my server to organize my music collection, then Jellyfin just does the server work.

I think you’ll be very happy with the setup you are using.

I started off with calibre-web and Kavita, but transitioned to calibre-web only. I found that I have a lot of weird formats for comic books that are not handled well by regular comics hosting. If you have everything in standard CBR formats (etc), then you should have no issues.

I found Kavita and komga basically equivalent, but some people have said it makes a difference for manga series.

Calibre-web-automated is a different project with more features and more active development. I’d probably choose that if I were setting it up today.

This is a great platform, especially if you are just beginning in self-hosting. I don’t use it on my deployment “version 2.0” because I found it unnecessary once learning a little more about docker, etc. While I was using it, I loved it, and would definitely recommend it!

There have been a lot of discussions about whether voting on Lemmy should be public. Some threadiverse platforms actually take the step of displaying votes and reactions publicly for that very reason.

I won’t attempt to recap those discussions here, but you may be able to search for them.

Voting functions completely differently between the two sites. I didn’t say that voting doesn’t matter, I said that no one cares about the “points.”

People can and do use voting to let others know about interesting content or to express displeasure at seeing a post (which is why it is sometimes surprising to see any downvotes on certain posts such as the nice one I was responding to in the screenshot).

What people don’t use them for is a measure of merit or reputation. Voting here functions much more like reddit used to years ago. It helps sort content by what people want to see.

While it is important to know that voting is not private (nor truly is direct messaging), that is not in itself a danger.

Lemmy is community driven, and so it is — broadly speaking — governed by community norms and the platform is responsive to the needs of those norms. If someone is harassing or mistreating you on the basis of your voting, then you can take it up with an admin. I’ve seen people called out for the use of vote manipulation, but I’m not sure what it would look like to be targeted based on your votes.

By the way, there are also mechanisms for publicly addressing grievances with mods and admins.

Most importantly, recognize that it does take time to adjust to the reality that no one cares about the fake internet points here. Reddit uses dark patterns to manipulate users into equating votes with worthiness. Having a lot of karma on reddit contributes to a person’s reputation and credibility there. Here, no one cares, or even sees, a person’s vote totals. Like most everything else, it’s technically public, but it’s not visible or indicated.

Why does reddit want you to care about your karma? For engagement and metrics. If people are only incentivized to share genuine interests and human interaction, then they won’t scroll mindlessly for quite as long. If every post and comment is incentivized for maximum virality, then Reddit can sell more eyeballs to advertisers. Plus, if people care enough about their fake points, they will literally pay to buy reputation. Reddit doesn’t care about your well-being, just your ad impressions. Like any other social media corp.

Welcome to a better, healthier, more transparent place. We are far from perfect, but no one here will use dark patterns to mine you for content.

How much data do you need to store? 1.21 Gb?

I found this: https://codeberg.org/mysearchhistory123/lms

LMS - Lightweight Music Server

LMS is a self-hosted music streaming software: access your music collection from anywhere using a web interface!

I also found this: https://codeberg.org/thororen/Feishin

Feishin

Rewrite of Sonixd.

Features:

• MPV player backend
• Web player backend
• Modern UI
• Scrobble playback to your server
• Smart playlist editor (Navidrome)
• Synchronized and unsynchronized lyrics support

Some elements of these are on github and I can’t attest to either. Neither has recent updates, but should function. Web interfaces and API support should mean that you have some mobile options. Like others, I object to your reasoning, but this is a community to help one another, so your reasoning for your goals doesn’t really matter to me.

I don’t think that you are likely to find any software that meets all of your requirements, but I hope this helps.

my Files look like this:

# /etc/systemd/system/restic-backup.service

[Unit]
Description=Generate a restic backup snapshot
After=network.target

[Service]
Type=oneshot
WorkingDirectory=/
EnvironmentFile=/etc/restic-env
PassEnvironment=AWS_ACCESS_KEY_ID AWS_SECRET_ACCESS_KEY RESTIC_REPOSITORY RESTIC_PASSWORD_FILE
Environment=XDG_CACHE_HOME=/var/cache
ExecStart=/usr/bin/restic backup -r s3:https://s3.us-west-004.backblazeb2.com/XXXBUCKETNAMEXXX /home/XXXX /etc /media/XXXX/Storage --tag auto
ExecStart=/usr/bin/restic forget --prune --keep-hourly 6 --keep-daily 7 --keep-weekly 4 --keep-monthly 6 --tag auto
ExecStart=/usr/bin/restic check --read-data

Nice=19
IOSchedulingClass=best-effort 
IOSchedulingPriority=7
TimeoutSec=3600
Restart=no

[Install]
WantedBy=multi-user.target

# /etc/restic-env

export AWS_ACCESS_KEY_ID=004XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
export AWS_SECRET_ACCESS_KEY=K00XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
export RESTIC_REPOSITORY=s3:s3.us-west-004.backblazeb2.com
export RESTIC_PASSWORD_FILE=/etc/restic-password

DEBUG_LOG=restic.log

I’m running the systemd commands from a root terminal and the permissions on restic-env and restic-password are 700

I don’t understand EnvironmentFile=%h/.config/restic-backup.conf - what is the %h/ part?

Yes, I’ve been running the two commands one after the other. I’m assuming that daemon-reload reloads the files into memory or whatever?

I was using s3, and I added the b2 variables in a “throw everything at the wall and see what sticks” process. not a good idea, but I do try to fix things on my own before posting things here. Occasionally I can figure it out lol. I’ve removed the b2 variables.

It occurs to me that I have restic set up as an app in backblaze according to this, so I’m not sure how it knows which bucket to use. appending the bucket name to the url does not change the outcome.

Now I am also getting: Fatal: unable to open config file: Stat: 401

What would be the benefit?

So is this a fork of calibre web or something that runs on top or what?

What is the relationship between Calibre-web-automated and calibre-web?