This probably isn’t the case for you but for some people being forced to leave the house and socialise is essential for their wellbeing. They may hate it, and may not even realize it, but going somewhere they dread is often better for them than wasting away at home.

No one starts shit around a kebab guy tho. They have seen it all and if you start a fight they will finish it for you.

Who or what is “Grimes”? Is this some woman’s surname?