If you look at the animal kingdom, you’ll see that rape is kind of the norm.

There’s a video on YouTube where otters were housed with monkeys, the monkeys trolled the shit out of the otters for the Lulz… Eventually the otters all sort of snapped, together, grabbed one and absolutely mauled the shit out of it.

I don’t think it’s mostly gender… Programmers aren’t usually those that have won the genetic lottery, I can count on one hand the amount of drop dead women engineers I’ve met in my field, they definitely exist, but they are super rare.

Same… Nothing against trans people, they can do them, but I have absolutely zero interest in reading about that sort of thing in much the same way I have zero interest in reading about stamp collection.

Ultimately, I joined Lemmy as a reddit refugee… If Lemmy turns out to be a place where I’m not interested in the majority after some time I’ll just leave 🤷

The world’s best vegetable dish is average at best compared to a dish that includes meat.

That’s an opinion based on my taste, and an opinion a lot of omnivores share, it isn’t wrong… Neither is it right for you - however it does seem to be the opinion most hold.

Run your own vpn, and only allow access to your services remotely if they are coming through that vpn.

Now you’ve shifted some of the security over to how secure your vpn server’s authentication is.

If you watched Mr robot, you downloaded it too tbf.