The context makes it worse, but I’m just trying to gauge how fucked up normal people would find this, because being raised by this kind of person messed with my calibration.

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    Dude you buried the lede here.

    I’m pretty sex positive and there are a lot of great suggestions from other users on how to make this a normal thing in normal dynamics…

    But this makes it really weird

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      Agreed.

      Both sides of my family are sex positive and a sex toy could work as a gag gift no problem.

      We’re talking Christmas white elephant (that’s a present swap/steal thing) with adults only and sex toys/kits coming out.

      In context this sounds like an abuse victim sadly.