My dad has recently been caught having an affair with his young personal assistant. Huge scandal; mom was very angry. Now they’re in the middle of divorce proceedings. Mom moved out, the other woman moved in and I chose to stay with him because we’re super close; he’s like my best friend. Now mom’s telling me to go and live with her and go no contact with him cause he’s a bad person and by continuing having a relationship with him I’m condoning his actions and “ignoring her suffering”. My relationship with my dad hasn’t changed, I don’t see why I should end it.
I don’t have a bad attitude, I merely suggest that life isn’t as black and white as you so badly desire that it is blinding and binding you unto a zealous fanatic.
Pick a lane.
I’m going with a third option. I can have a great attitude and think you’re a moron. It happens every day.